


Many men reach a point in life where they feel stuck—but don’t talk about it. From the outside, everything may look fine. You’re working, providing, showing up. But internally, you may feel lost, disconnected, frustrated, or unsure of who you are anymore. You may be carrying the weight of a struggling marriage, the pain of divorce, uncertainty in your career, or questions about your purpose and direction. Most men were never taught how to process these moments. You were taught to be strong. To push through. To figure it out on your own. But strength doesn’t mean carrying everything alone.
My work is centered on creating a safe, confidential space where men can be honest—without judgment, without performance, and without pressure. Together, we slow things down, clarify what’s really happening beneath the surface, and build practical strategies to help you move forward with strength and intention.
Whether you want to rebuild your marriage, navigate separation with integrity, redefine your career path, or reconnect with your sense of purpose, growth begins with a conversation. If something in you knows it’s time for change, I invite you to reach out. You don’t have to stay stuck. The next chapter can begin today.
I was raised in foster care from age nine to eighteen due to my mother’s mental health challenges, growing up fatherless but blessed with strong men who helped shape my life. Even so, I understand firsthand the lasting impact of fatherlessness and the challenges many men quietly carry.
I have experienced significant hardship, including a failed marriage, as well as the growth and joy of a second marriage and building a blended family. As a first-generation college graduate and the first in my family to earn a doctoral degree, I know what it means to forge a new path without a blueprint.
My personal journey fuels my passion for helping men find their footing in life—healing, growing, and leading with strength and integrity.
Dr. Shawn Derritt specializes in helping men gain clarity, confidence, and emotional strength. With advanced training in counseling psychology and certification in life coaching, he skillfully integrates practical strategy with deep emotional insight. He helps men navigate identity, marriage, fatherhood, failure, and purpose with honesty and accountability. Drawing from both clinical expertise and lived experience, Dr. Derritt creates a direct, grounded, and solution-focused space where men can confront challenges, build resilience, and step fully into the leaders they are called to be.
Dr. Shawn Derritt earned both his Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and his Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the University of Kansas. He later completed his Doctorate of Education (Ed.D.) in Higher Education Administration from the University of Missouri–Kansas City. As a first-generation college graduate—and the first in his family to earn a doctoral degree—his academic journey reflects perseverance, discipline, and a deep commitment to excellence.
In addition to his formal education, Dr. Derritt is a Certified Life Coach through Symbiosis Coaching, an International Coaching Federation (ICF) accredited coach certification program. His combined clinical training and coaching certification allow him to integrate evidence-based counseling principles with practical, forward-focused coaching strategies in his work with men and couples.
Men of Covenant is a premier Married Men’s Support Group created for husbands who take their vows seriously and are committed to building marriages that last. This confidential and supportive brotherhood provides a space where men can speak honestly, grow intentionally, and sharpen one another without judgment.
Strong marriages do not happen by accident — they are built through effort, humility, and accountability. Men of Covenant is designed for men who want to lead their homes with strength and wisdom while deepening their emotional connection with their wives. In this group, husbands gain practical tools for healthier communication, conflict resolution, stress management, and emotional regulation — skills that transform not only marriages, but families.
Through guided discussions, real-life scenarios, and shared experiences, participants develop clarity, confidence, and character. You will learn how to navigate challenges without withdrawing or escalating, rebuild trust when needed, and foster intimacy, respect, and partnership.
This is not a space for passive attendance — it is a space for growth.
If you are serious about becoming a stronger husband, a better communicator, and a more grounded leader in your marriage, Men of Covenant is for you.
Because covenant isn’t casual — it’s intentional.
Email at drderritt@gmail.com. Provide your phone number and email address, and you will be contacted to schedule an intake session.

We are excited to offer couples counseling services facilitated by my wife, Gloria Derritt, MA., Licensed Professional Counselor. Our unique approach combines our personal experiences and professional expertise to create a supportive and understanding environment for couples. We believe that every relationship has the potential for growth and healing, and we are committed to helping you navigate challenges together. With our dual perspectives, we aim to foster open communication, strengthen connections, and promote mutual understanding. Join us on this journey toward a healthier, more fulfilling partnership.

Couples Collective is a supportive community for couples seeking to strengthen their relationships, improve communication, and deepen emotional connections. Led by husband-and-wife team Shawn Derritt, a Certified Life Coach, and Gloria Derritt, a Licensed Professional Counselor, the Collective combines clinical expertise with real-life experience. Couples receive practical tools rooted in Gottman Couples Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to navigate conflict, rebuild trust, and foster intimacy, while also benefiting from the encouragement of fellow couples committed to growth.
Call 913.991.6093 for more information
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