About Dr. Shawn Derritt
I was raised in foster care from age nine to eighteen due to my mother’s mental health issues. Growing up without a father, I was fortunate to receive support from strong men who significantly shaped my life. I understand firsthand the lasting effects of fatherlessness and the quiet struggles many men face, which is why I am passionate about providing counseling services and facilitating men's support groups.
I've faced tough times, including a failed marriage, but I also experienced growth and happiness through a second marriage and the joy of building a blended family. Recently, I have also experienced the death of a spouse, so I understand what it means to persevere through challenging times. As a first-generation college graduate and the first in my family to earn a doctoral degree, I know what it takes to carve a new path without a guide. My personal journey fuels my commitment to helping men find stability so they can heal, grow, and lead with strength and integrity.
I earned my Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and my Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the University of Kansas. I later completed my Doctorate of Education (Ed.D.) in Higher Education Administration at the University of Missouri–Kansas City. My academic journey—being a first-generation college graduate and the first in my family to achieve a doctoral degree—demonstrates perseverance, discipline, and a strong dedication to excellence.
In addition to my formal education, I am a Certified Life Coach through Symbiosis Coaching, an International Coaching Federation (ICF)-accredited program. This combination of clinical training and life coaching certification allows me to blend evidence-based counseling methods with practical, future-focused coaching strategies when working with men and couples.
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Kansas City and the surrounding areas
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Life Coaching for Men
You've Been Carrying It Alone!
Many men reach a point in life where they feel stuck—but don't talk about it. From the outside, everything may look fine. You're working, providing, and showing up. But internally, you may feel lost, disconnected, frustrated, or unsure of who you are anymore. You may be carrying the weight of a struggling marriage, the pain of divorce, career uncertainty, or questions about your purpose and direction. Most men were never taught how to process these moments. You were taught to be strong, to push through, and to figure it out on your own. But strength doesn't mean carrying everything alone.
My work focuses on providing counseling services that create a safe, confidential space where men can be honest—without judgment, without performance, and without pressure. Working with Dr. Shawn Derritt, a Life Coach for Men, gives you a space to think clearly, make better decisions, and regain control of your direction. Together, we slow things down, clarify what's really happening beneath the surface, and build practical strategies to help you move forward with strength and intention.
Whether you want to rebuild your marriage, navigate separation with integrity, redefine your career path, or reconnect with your sense of purpose, growth begins with a conversation. If something in you knows it's time for change, I invite you to reach out. You don't have to stay stuck. The next chapter can begin today.
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Life Coach for Men
Kansas City Metro area
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Take the first step towards a healthier, more fulfilling life.
What I Help Men Work Through
I offer life coaching services for men in the Kansas City Metro, Lenexa, and surrounding areas. I specialize in guiding men to achieve clarity, confidence, and emotional strength. With advanced training in counseling psychology and certification in life coaching, I expertly combine practical strategies with deep emotional insight. I assist men in navigating issues related to identity, marriage, fatherhood, failure, and purpose with honesty and accountability. Utilizing both clinical expertise and personal experience, I create a direct, grounded, and solution-focused environment where men can confront challenges, build resilience, and fully embrace their roles as leaders.
I Help Men Work Through:
- Feeling stuck or unmotivated
- Relationship challenges
- Career stress or burnout
- Lack of direction or purpose
- Confidence and self-doubt
- Communication struggles
- Life transitions
If you're experiencing any of these challenges, you don't have to handle it alone. Join our men's support group for additional encouragement and community.
Now Accepting New Clients
Kansas City and the surrounding areas
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“Life Coaching for Men in Kansas City”
Couples Counseling
Couples Counseling
Every relationship experiences seasons of challenge. Miscommunication, unresolved conflict, life transitions, broken trust, or the demands of everyday life can leave even the strongest couples feeling disconnected. The good news is that healing is possible.
At Monarch Counseling Services, we believe healthy relationships are built through understanding, intentional communication, and a commitment to growth. Our couples counseling services provide a supportive, nonjudgmental environment where partners can openly discuss concerns, rebuild trust, strengthen emotional connection, and develop practical tools for lasting change.
Whether you are dating, engaged, married, or navigating a significant life transition, we are here to help you move beyond conflict and toward a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. Together, we'll identify unhealthy patterns, improve communication, deepen intimacy, and create a stronger foundation for your future.
Every relationship has the potential for transformation. Like the monarch butterfly, meaningful change takes time, courage, and the right support. We are honored to walk alongside you as you rediscover hope, healing, and connection.
Now accepting new couples. Schedule your first appointment today and begin your journey toward a stronger relationship.
Practical, Real-World Life Coaching Services for Men and Couples in The Kansas City Metro Area
This isn't just talking - it's action. My approach to counseling services combines Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) strategies, solution-focused coaching, and real-world application.
I emphasize real-life applications so clients can implement what they learn immediately. Each session is thoughtfully designed to offer clear direction, actionable steps, and effective tools, with a focus on our men's issues. My goal is to facilitate lasting change and personal development that truly makes a difference.
You’ll walk away from each session with: clear direction, actionable steps, and tools you can actually use.
Now Accepting New Clients
Kansas City and the surrounding areas
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Life Coaching for Men and Couples Counseling in Kansas City
Life Coaching Services for Men and Couples Counseling
Kansas City, MO
Kansas City, KS
Overland Park
Lenexa
Leawood
Roeland Park
Olathe
Shawnee
I offer counseling services through both virtual and in-person sessions, including life coaching and a men's support group. Evening and weekend sessions are available.
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Life Coaching for men & Couples Counseling Kansas City Metr
Now Accepting New Clients
You can reach us for our counseling services in the following ways:
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Hours
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My Music
I believe that music can be fundamental in sustaining mental health. It expresses thoughts and emotions, sometimes in ways the listener may not be aware of. Music can become a soundtrack to one's life or life circumstances, much like the support offered by counseling services or a men's support group. If you're looking for guidance, consider exploring life coaching as well. Check out my music store to see if any songs resonate with your life.
“Life Coaching for Men in Kansas City”